Seduction

I have previously spoke on this target and if you want to get a dose of that go here.

Now I will add a jewel to that masterpiece of posts with another one about seduction.

Seduction

A Seductress is one who uses their prowess to attract and keep their target. To be a great seductress one must know how to seduce your target. Seducers must adapt their way of proving themselves. The seductress is one who finds a way to adapt to the situation and the people around.

Picking a target is one of the most important things a seductress has to do. A worthwhile target allows the seductress time to study, plan, and act of what seduction they want to carry out. Target selected then next is the approach. The approach is important because as the seductress you want to be memorable but not pesky. Your entrance needs to be as great as your exit. From this point the game starts. From dodging and playing hard to get, to giving just enough to keep them interested and coming back. Once you get noticed time to keep attention and the attention focused on you. To keep your seduction in tact you never want to appear over anxious, maybe a little jealous, and your drive should show. A true seductress is not just after the physical seduction, she’s after the mental, emotional, spiritual as well as the physical. The physical being the easiest to conquer is always the first on the list. You may be asking yourself why it is the easiest. It’s the easiest because the flesh is weak. We all know this to be true so we should arrange ourselves accordingly. Seduction is a game that doesn’t have a time limit and when executed well can run for years. The target can be in your grasp for years if the game is played well.  When was the last time you were seduced?

Communication

This is my first attempt to delve into the world or the art of communication. I believe in all relationships communication is important. I feel we need to find the most effective and positive way to convey our message. No matter how awful it is to the other person. Author Robert Green of the 48 Laws of Power says “Our attempts to communicate with them (people) become absorbed in all of the noise that fills their ears in daily life.” What does this statement say to you? That rarlly do people take the single words or statements you say in as you mean them or give them the chance you want them to have. Sometimes people just hear them and take them with a grain of salt.

Communication is important and for some reason people feel like they need to do the extra things to ensure you over stand. They feel like no one hears them or understands their statements. Communication is important in relationships. Not romantic but all relationships. One has to listen clearly and speak clearly. With these two in place great communication can happen and continue to happen.

Communication isn’t limited to just verbal because there can be an action that a person is doing that annoys you, no matter how many times and ways you say its annoying it may take for you to show them the action for the message to really get through. Mirroring the action is a way of getting them to change a bad habit. Other ways of communication include persuading someone to accomplish something great. This gives them real experience to draw from. It will then translate to a deeper level of confidence. To communicate an important idea allows the person who is following to connect the dots on their own allowing them to feel as if it comes from their own minds that penetrates deep behind peoples defenses.

Guide to finding love to keeping love

To find love, one must first and foremost love themselves. To love yourself, you have to be willing to go on the journey to self healing and self reflection. On this post you may learn things about yourself that will disturb, shock, make you cower in fear.

To make it through is a blessing that means you’re a survivor, a warrior, you know how to learn and apply. Next thing after self reflection is actualizing. Taking the things you know about yourself and applying them to your life step by step. In doing this you’re training and preparing yourself for the person you want to be and the person you seek. The next thing is prayer and meditation. Through prayer and meditation one can achieve a deeper level of understanding. The understanding are the things they want vs the things they have in place.

Once these steps are achieved you truly love yourself and know yourself well enough to invite someone new into your life and tell them about yourself. Introducing yourself with understanding is different. The person can now see you and appreciate you for who you truly are and the beauty that is you. This will open you to love.

Once the connection is made to knowing yourself, that will allow you to help them with the project that is you. Once you have access to this love with the other person you can keep it long and strong by being honest and open with intentions, visions, and views associated with that love. Doing these practices including letting them, talking to them, associating and referring to them in manners allows room for love and all the beauty attached. You can take the hits, the beauty, the failure, and the wisdom associated with it. Thus keeping love. If you want  your chance at attaining and keeping love try following these steps and see where they lead you.

crying for attention

Sometimes when there is a need, we cry for attention.

Death Over Anything

Hey Advisor,

Whats the big deal with suicide?

Dyingalready

hey d.a.,

I am not really sure how to answer your question. I mean suicide is always a big deal unless you feel there is nothing left to do in life. I feel that people tend to pick this option as a direct response to the trials and tribulations of other things in life. for example something in life my be hard so they go directly for the easy out. I am not here to say killing yourself is easy but in that moment it maybe easier than facing whatever issue there is to face right then and there. if you can understand that.

Grief 2

Hey advisor,

Grief is a serious thing, is there a process to it or do i just cry it out?

Grieving & Hurting

Hey G & H,

Wow timing is interesting i just posted on this issue. recently check here. What I will say I am sorry for your lost and dealing with it can be a life long issue. It is a journey and I wish you all the good luck on your journey because it can weigh on you and weigh you down on many levels.

Grief

Hey Advisor,

How do I comes to grips with losing a loved one?

Depressed

Hey D,

I’m sorry for your lost. We’ll there is no set way to get over losing a loved one and thats honest. Popular belief is that we have a process of grieving that fall into stages.  Click here they talk about the 7 stages. Although I had always thought there were 5 stages. I have lost a few people and I know how hard it is to get over and depending on the person you never really get over you just learn to cope. I hope that site helps you.