Differences

Posted: July 1, 2013 in Love, Married
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Differences

There are many differences in life. When it comes to marriage and relationships we have goals and a lot of time those goals and dreams are different for different people. I find that in relationships they tend to change over time. When relationships and people in them mature they want different things. This is why in a relationships when someone introduces a drastic change in relationship status for example like cuckold or open marriage.

Okay for those that don’t know what these terms are they are different and I can explain them for you because there are many people that are experienced in these relationships. Cuckold is when a man allows his wife to sleep with woman and he also encourages it to happen and stays faithful in the marriage. Open Marriage a marriage in which each partner is free to enter into extraneous sexual relationships without guilt or jealousy from the other.  They are very tricky to be in. Only the most trusting couples can survive them and only the ones who are the most honest with themselves can be in them and survive.

The key to surviving these is not being so different from your partner; you can’t be so different from your partner in wants and needs. There are rules to the game and you have to discuss these rules to survive in the atmosphere. It is not easy, it is very complicated and very tricky, especially if you are living with the partner, especially if they are dating, and especially I they are dating and you’re not. The partners have to be willing to remember each other, remember the needs and wants of the partner. You have to be weary because there is a chance you can lose the person you are close to, that you love and that you were willing to spend the rest of your life with and for, but the truth is you can’t control that you have to roll with the punches and hope that in the end everyone is happy and safe and cone out on top. Happy figuring out what the differences is for you. The one thing i did regret i didn’t menton was communication. That is key in situations like this because without it, tis probably won’t work for you.

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