“It doesn’t matter if they fuck you over”

Posted: October 24, 2013 in Love
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This post was inspired by a conversation with a friend of mine. If I am remembering the conversation correctly he was touching on a specific subject which is woman. A few of my friends have had this problem recently, where woman have sent them unsolicited explicit pictures. sidenote: no man will turn down great explicit pictures…..

Before I even finish where the conversation when I will say this, I believe that all woman want to be loved, cherished, and treated with a level of respect and dignity. All woman want to be lusted after, ravaged, and hungered for by a guy they love and for some woman all guys. everyone woman teases as well, it is apart of the flirting game. In this day and age tease has taken on a whole new meaning. Back in the day teasing used to be a smile, a wink, a blow of a kiss, and for the brave woman she would come close and whisper something racy in your ear. As a teenager most girls flirted the same way but there were some who stroked my arms, hand, and maybe kissed me on the cheek and the brave ones would do a sexy dance or something like that. As technology has gotten better this generation a tease is full frontal, back, side, and whatever else nudity via pictures & video.

This brings me back to my original point. Teasing is cool, it happens but when you’re sending explicit pictures and talking up your sexual prowess and what you “can do better than……” What do you expect a guy is expecting when you come to his personal residence? Do you expect him to be willing to sit and play monopoly each and every visit? If you don;t have an intention to sleep with the guy ever then why send pictures like that? Why tease and entice a guy if you arn’t going to sleep with him? I understand attention but a guy will give you attention with a smile, with a nice headshot picture, with a pleasant picture trust me he will. Ladies know this if you’re sending a guy a picture of everything you have, all your goodies, then you coming to his house or he coming to yours. What is the point? Whats the end result? Mind you I am not saying sleep with him firs time out the box or anything but slay the sexual talk because if the sexual wasn’t introduced then they guy wouldn’t have it at the forefront or press on it hard. Most guys are cool and willing to build up to it.

That leads us back t the title, a guy feel like he’s being fucked over if he is getting teased and riled all up only for the chick to come over and chill and do nothing. Not even a kiss.


So I ask again whats the point?

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