Double Standards

 

I hope you took a moment to read that because it is what inspired my post. This post was made on a friend of a friends facebook page. It got me thinking after I read it. I thought back to every girl in my 20’s who dissed me and treat me like crap because I was raised a decent young man by my mother. I recently had a conversation with a young lady who told me all a woman needs is to feel loved, secure, and protected. I know some of those have break down and sub categories and all that I am well aware.

After reading the above post, I was confronted with reflecting on my past and looking at some on tv. There was a tv show I was watching where the man was providing all of those things and the woman still cheated… her reason she felt “lonely”. Now that reason in her mind was supposed to make it okay, she explained it that he was working a bunch of hours and she was lonely…. Now let me get this straight s I can understand. The man was supposed to protect you and make you feel secure and spend all day everyday with you? So how do you eat? how do you live in the nice house? How do you drive the nice car? A woman will say she doesn’t need it, yet point out al the people wh have one and how nice it is and would be to have….

 

Now lets flip this on its side and look at it from the other side if this was a man and he did it, there would be panty protesters in the street dam near rioting because  he doesn’t respect her and who she is in his life etc. IT IS NOT OKAY TO BE TREATED LIKE CRAP AND CHEATED ON. No matter man or woman it is selfish Why aren’t there as many groups keeping it real. She really wants to have her cake and eat it too and she will sleep with a dude in her husband’s bed and let him sleep in the sweaty sheets.

 

I feel there is a disproportionate need of what is required for each sex to bring to a relationship. A man has  to make a woman smile, laugh, feel secure, etc and all she has to do is show up and look pretty. He has to maintain everything he does for real fear of being replaced and she can coast and if he complains its sexist and he doesn’t understand.

I was listening to a podcast earlier in the week where woman bragged bout getting over on a guy and how hard she fought to be right, she didn’t even want to concede once she got caught doing the selfish act. She wanted to fight to be right and as a man we can’t call them on it. This double standards……..

Differences

Differences

There are many differences in life. When it comes to marriage and relationships we have goals and a lot of time those goals and dreams are different for different people. I find that in relationships they tend to change over time. When relationships and people in them mature they want different things. This is why in a relationships when someone introduces a drastic change in relationship status for example like cuckold or open marriage.

Okay for those that don’t know what these terms are they are different and I can explain them for you because there are many people that are experienced in these relationships. Cuckold is when a man allows his wife to sleep with woman and he also encourages it to happen and stays faithful in the marriage. Open Marriage a marriage in which each partner is free to enter into extraneous sexual relationships without guilt or jealousy from the other.  They are very tricky to be in. Only the most trusting couples can survive them and only the ones who are the most honest with themselves can be in them and survive.

The key to surviving these is not being so different from your partner; you can’t be so different from your partner in wants and needs. There are rules to the game and you have to discuss these rules to survive in the atmosphere. It is not easy, it is very complicated and very tricky, especially if you are living with the partner, especially if they are dating, and especially I they are dating and you’re not. The partners have to be willing to remember each other, remember the needs and wants of the partner. You have to be weary because there is a chance you can lose the person you are close to, that you love and that you were willing to spend the rest of your life with and for, but the truth is you can’t control that you have to roll with the punches and hope that in the end everyone is happy and safe and cone out on top. Happy figuring out what the differences is for you. The one thing i did regret i didn’t menton was communication. That is key in situations like this because without it, tis probably won’t work for you.

Fetishes

When you love you are willing to indulge in your partners fetishes. There is a term for these people it is Good Giving Game or GGG. It is my belief that these people may have their limit but usually they are willing to go far and do just about anything. as you grow up if you are able to have  great partner in your teens you can try out any and everything. For example teen girls are usually more advanced and open in so they maybe willing to try fellatio and cunnilingus, anal, role play, cos-play, and anything else you can even consider and you want to know why, because experience is amazing. I can remember there were a few experiences I had as a teenager here girls were willing and open to do a lot. Now I am not on to brag or even tell it all because to be quite honest i wasn’t able to have to many experiences as I had many responsibilities on my shoulder. I did have enough experiences.

Another group to target is the late teens early 20’s group. They are always open and willing to do just about anything as well. For most in this age group they are getting their first taste of true freedom. They are away from home for the first time, they are on their own with their own responsibility and want to just try everything. I remember when I was in my first semester in school I met so many interesting beautiful woman and some not so beautiful but they were definitely open and willing to try anything.  For example I met a girl in a class who openly told me she was a slut funny thing is she was very beautiful, There was another class where I met another beautiful exotic girl who told m how she loved to have sex in her van in the school parking lot, There is another one who loved the feeling of ecstasy and proceeded to pop a pill as we walked to the next class, lastly another girl i was in class with through sex parties, was engaged and her fiance who i met didn’t mind how hard she was hitting on me as she did it in front of him. I remember with her on time as I studied for an upcoming test in the school breeze way she lifted her skirt and showed me her uncovered ‘goods’.

I saw all these things to say that people are interesting and have interesting fetishes and if you love them and are willing to indulge it can be a fun time for you…. Enjoy and how about go and have your own experience.